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PART 2<\/strong><\/h1>\n

By midnight, my mother had called eleven times.<\/p>\n

I ignored every call.<\/p>\n

Daniel sat next to me on the couch with his laptop open, refreshing our wedding inbox as messages started arriving.<\/p>\n

Aunt Rebecca wrote first.<\/p>\n

Mara, honey, is this true? Your mother said you were postponing because Daniel\u2019s family refused to contribute.<\/p>\n

Uncle Glenn followed.<\/p>\n

I knew something sounded off. Your grandmother would haunt us if we missed your wedding.<\/p>\n

Then Mrs. Parker from church sent a message.<\/p>\n

Your mother told the prayer committee you were under emotional strain. Do you need help?<\/p>\n

Daniel looked up from the laptop. \u201cShe told people you were unstable.\u201d<\/p>\n

I gave a short laugh, but it sounded hollow. \u201cThat\u2019s her favorite word for women who say no.\u201d<\/p>\n

My phone lit up again.<\/p>\n

MOM.<\/p>\n

Then DAD.<\/p>\n

Then MOM once more.<\/p>\n

Finally, a text appeared.<\/p>\n

You embarrassed me.<\/p>\n

I stared at it before answering.<\/p>\n

No. I corrected you.<\/p>\n

Three dots appeared immediately, disappeared, then returned.<\/p>\n

At last, she sent: You have no idea what you have done.<\/p>\n

I replied: Neither did you.<\/p>\n

The next morning, my younger sister Claire called. She was thirty-one, two years younger than me, and lived only three miles from our parents in a townhouse they had helped her purchase.<\/p>\n

Claire had spent her life avoiding sides, which usually meant supporting our parents by default.<\/p>\n

\u201cMara,\u201d she began carefully, \u201cMom is hysterical.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe lied about my wedding.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe says you\u2019re making her look cruel.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe is cruel.\u201d<\/p>\n

Claire became silent.<\/p>\n

I heard a door close on her end, and then she lowered her voice. \u201cShe told everyone Daniel\u2019s parents were rude to her and that you were too ashamed to go through with the wedding.\u201d<\/p>\n

Daniel, who was preparing coffee in the kitchen, stopped moving.<\/p>\n

His parents were gentle, private people from Oregon. They had offered to cover the flowers and rehearsal dinner, even after my mother dismissed them as \u201csmall-town simple.\u201d<\/p>\n

I closed my eyes. \u201cDid you believe her?\u201d<\/p>\n

Claire waited too long before answering.<\/p>\n

That hurt more than I expected.<\/p>\n

\u201cMara, Mom can be dramatic, but this is a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNo,\u201d I said. \u201cStealing my wedding guests is a lot. Lying about my fianc\u00e9 is a lot. Calling me unstable because I set boundaries is a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n

Claire whispered, \u201cWhat are you going to do?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m getting married.\u201d<\/p>\n

At noon, an event coordinator from the Fairmont accidentally called me.<\/p>\n

\u201cMrs. Harrington?\u201d she asked.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is her daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOh.\u201d She hesitated. \u201cI\u2019m sorry. I was returning the call about the anniversary event. We\u2019ve received twelve cancellations this morning, and a few guests asked whether the Harrington wedding was actually happening.\u201d<\/p>\n

I looked across the kitchen at Daniel.<\/p>\n

A slight smile formed on his face.<\/p>\n

\u201cYes,\u201d I said. \u201cThe wedding is absolutely happening.\u201d<\/p>\n

By Friday, forty-six guests had canceled my mother\u2019s anniversary celebration.<\/p>\n

By Saturday, seventy-three people had reconfirmed their attendance at my wedding.<\/p>\n

By Sunday, my father arrived at my apartment.<\/p>\n

He brought no flowers and offered no apology. He stood in the hallway wearing a navy coat and the injured expression of a man insulted by the consequences of his own choices.<\/p>\n

\u201cYour mother has not slept,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat sounds unpleasant.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe made one mistake.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe lied to half the family.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe was hurt.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShe tried to ruin my wedding.\u201d<\/p>\n

His jaw tightened. \u201cYou always were difficult.\u201d<\/p>\n

There it was.<\/p>\n

The family judgment, familiar and polished from years of use.<\/p>\n

I opened the door farther. \u201cThen this should not surprise you.\u201d<\/p>\n

He looked at me as though I had become a stranger.<\/p>\n

\u201cFix it,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you go through with this, there will be damage.\u201d<\/p>\n

I nodded. \u201cYes. But not to my marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n

I shut the door before he could respond.<\/p>\n

Daniel waited quietly inside.<\/p>\n

For the first time since my mother\u2019s announcement, I cried.<\/p>\n

Not because I feared the wedding would fail.<\/p>\n

I cried because I finally understood it would happen without the version of my family I had spent my entire life trying to deserve.<\/p>\n

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