My mother-in-law invited 18 people to our house for Thanksgiving without asking, then sent me a 14-dish menu. When my sister-in-law texted, “Make yourself useful,” my husband booked us two tickets to Paris. By 6 p.m., the family was calling nonstop.
At 4:17 on the Monday before Thanksgiving, my phone buzzed while I was waiting in line at a grocery store outside Washington, D.C. The message was from my mother-in-law, Patricia. “Great news! Everyone confirmed....